- Openly discuss family and domestic problems of children.
- Help your children build a real purpose in life and strive for them.
- Be sure to overcome the obstacles.
- Any standing positive initiatives of young people approve, in word and deed.
- Under any circumstances, do not use physical punishment.
- More like their younger children, Be careful and, particularly important, sensitive to them.
- Listen carefully to the suicide of a teenager who decided to. In a state of emotional crisis any of us, прежде всего, requires someone, who are willing to listen to us. Instead of condemnation and censure. Do your best, To understand the problem, hidden behind the words.
- Please rate the seriousness of the intentions and feelings of the child. If he or she already has a specific suicide plan, The situation is more acute, than if these plans are vague and uncertain.
- Rate deep emotional crisis. The teenager may be experiencing serious difficulties, but do not think of suicide. Often people, recently I was in a state of depression, suddenly gets violent, tireless work. This behavior can also be a cause for alarm.
- Heed all, even the most minor complaints and grievances of the child. Do not neglect anything of what has been said. He and whether it could not give vent to feelings, hiding their problems, but at the same time in a state of deep depression.
- Do not be afraid to ask directly, if he or she is thinking about suicide. Experience shows, that this question is rarely harmful. Often the teenager is pleased to be able to openly express their problems.
“As you sow, so shall you reap!” – proverb says.
Adoption of such a person, what it is, adoption of the spirit and the essence of his existence on Earth – Love is in its true manifestation.
Therefore, advice to parents is simple and accessible: “Love your children, Be sincere and honest in their attitude towards their children and themselves”.
CAUSES SYMPTOMS OF SUICIDE
• Lack of friendly attention from adults
• A sharp increase in the overall rhythm of life
• Socio-economic destabilization
• Alcohol and drug abuse among parents
• Abuse of a teenager, psychological, physical and sexual abuse
• Alcohol and drug abuse among adolescents
• Uncertainty about the future
• Lack of moral and ethical values
• Loss of the sense of life
• Low self-esteem, difficulties samoopredelenii
• Poverty emotional and intellectual life
• Unrequited Love
That can keep teenagers from SUICIDE:
• Set the caring relationship with the child
• Be an attentive listener
• Be honest in communicating, calmly and clearly ask about disturbing situation
• Help identify the source of mental discomfort
• gives hope, that all problems can be solved constructively
• Help your child to realize his personal resources
• Provide support for the successful implementation of the child in this and help determine the prospects for the future
• Listen carefully to the teenager!
Actions parents in suicide attempt
If, however, failed to prevent disaster, and the child is still attempted suicide, parents should adopt a set of urgent measures. Разумеется, your first feeling will be frightened and relieved, that the child's life have been able to save. Do not hide your feelings from a child under the mask of indifference and even more anger. The child must feel, that you really love it and cherish it.
After, as the state of health of the child is stabilized, you necessarily will need to seek help from psychologists. In no case do not neglect the help of professionals - often deal with the problem on its own is almost impossible. In that case, if doctors deem it necessary to place your child in a specialized rehabilitation center, In no case do not give. Remember, that your child attempted suicide committed not just, hence, he can repeat it in the event, If the cause is not identified and corrected.
Although, in fairness, it should be noted that, statistics show, Children's suicide is a single character. Repeated suicide attempts in adolescence occur rarely - no more than one per 600 случаев. However, it is still no reason for parents to weaken attention and control of the child's emotional state, in distress. often, adults, mature people are not always able to cope with their own emotions. What can we say about the fragile psyche of a teenager.
In that case,, if the child's hospitalization is not required, much of the responsibility for the rehabilitation of the health of the child rests on the shoulders of parents. In no case did not conflict with the child, do not accuse him of anything. Try to understand your child, enter into his position and help him. In that case, if the child will feel your help and support, he probably will not longer try to commit suicide.
For assistance you can always contact socio-psychological service UO "Bobruisk State special boarding school for children with hearing impairment, or e-mail trust boarding school: doveriepochta@mail.ru