Adjusting to school – It is the process of adjusting to a new school conditions, every first-grader who is aware of and experiencing in their own way. The most important result of the help of parents in the child's adaptation to school – this is a good mood in the daily school activities and to all persons, involved in the educational process (teachers, caregivers, children).
To kid, school starts, necessary moral and emotional support. He should praise and less blame. And it was then that praise, when he does something. But:
- In no case do not compare it to mediocre results with the requirements of the school curriculum, other achievements, more successful, students. Better never to compare the child with other children (Remember your childhood).
- Compare the child can be with him and to praise himself only for only one: the results of his own improvement. Each, even the slightest success should be marked by sincere and without irony parents. Whatever it was successful child – In sports, housework, in drawing, design, etc., he shall in no case can not be put in the failures of guilt in other school matters. in front of, it must be emphasized, that if it is something learned to do well, then gradually learn the rest.
Reduce child alert school affairs can be the following means.
- Do not show your child concern his school success.
- Sincerely interested in the child's school life and to shift their focus to the study on the relationship of the child with other children, the preparation and conduct of school holidays, duty roster, excursions etc.
- emphasize, stand out as extremely important that the scope of activities, where the child is more than a success, thereby helping to gain confidence in themselves. The more we try to educate, press, the more the resistance grows, which manifests itself sometimes sharply negative, the marked demonstrative behavior – hysteria, kapriznosty. It is generated by the lack of love, attention, ласки, understanding of a child's life.
Awakening.
If a child gets up with difficulty, no need to wake him, shakes and throwing off the blanket with him, You do not need to get into an argument about the "last minutes". You can solve the problem in a different way – put the arrow on five minutes before: "Yes, I understand, I do not want to wake up. Lie down for another five minutes ".
Returning from school.
Do not ask questions, which give children the usual answers.
– How are things at school? Fine.
– What we do today? nothing.
– What did you get? etc..
Think of yourself, as I am sometimes irritated the issue, especially when estimates do not meet the expectations of the parents. Add to your vocabulary the following phrases: "Let everything be good today", "I wish you a nice day", than "Look behave well, do not play".
It's time to sleep.
Younger students better put to bed by their parents. If bedtime confided to talk to him, listen carefully, calm fears, показать, that you understand the child, then he learns to reveal the soul and free from fear, alarm, calmly shot.
To the child felt your support and care, love and attention, to feel fit, be sure to tell him words of love. This will help your child learn with pride and increase his desire to go to school.
Good luck to you and your children!